给别人留下好印象的30件小事

原标题:给别人留下好印象的30件小事

30 Simple Things You Don't Realize You Do That Impress Everyone Around You

给别人留下好印象的30件小事

1.Dress the part

着装得体

Your appearance is the thing people see first. They look at your clothes, hair, shoes, etc. They make assumptions about you before you even open your mouth. If you want to impress people, dress for the occasion. Take time to get ready in the morning.

外表是人们最先看到的。他们会观察你的衣着,头发,鞋子等等。甚至在你开口之前他们就会对你作出设想。如果你想要给对方留下深刻印象,着装要适合场合。早上花费一点时间做准备。

2. Be on time

准时

If you’re late for something, you’re giving someone the opportunity to judge you without you even being there. If you say you’re going to be somewhere at a certain time, then be there at that time. Waiting for someone when they should already be there is frustrating and annoying.

3. Don’t break your promises

切勿食言

There are too many people out there making promises they know they can’t keep. They promise something because it makes the other person feel better in that moment. The problem with that is that down the road, when you don’t follow through, the comfort that person felt turns into discouragement, frustration and even anger. If you can’t keep a promise, don’t make it. If you do make a promise, do everything you can to keep it.

许多人明知自己做不到,却依然做出承诺。他们承诺某些事情是因为当时会让对方觉得不错。这样做带来的问题是,当你难以兑现承诺的时候,对方之前的舒服就会变成失望,沮丧,甚至愤怒。如果你不能兑现,那就不要承诺。既然承诺了,就要尽最大努力遵守。

4. Respect others

尊重他人

This includes your elders, minors, co-workers, family members, etc. This can be hard when you have to be around someone who has differing opinions than you, or who acts in a way you don’t approve of. But you can still be civil. If you look for attributes you respect in people, you will find them.

包括年长者,年幼者,同事,家人等等。如果对方和你意见不合,或者你不赞同他们的行为方式,尊重他们尤其困难。但是你仍然可以有礼貌地对待他们。如果你希望留下尊重他人的好印象,你会得偿所愿。

5. Be involved

积极参与

If you support going green, then go green in your life. If you support your local government, then attend community meetings. Be a part of the things that matter to you.

如果你支持环保,生活中就要注意环保。如果你支持当地政府,那就参加社区会议。如果某些事情对你来说比较重要,那就成为其中的一部分。

6. Say, “Please,” and, “Thank you,” often

常说“请”,“谢谢”等礼貌用语

These are small words, but they go a long way. Expressing your gratitude to people, even for the smallest acts of kindness, shows that you see the good in people; it shows that you pay attention to the things people around you are doing and saying.

这些都是微不足道的词语,却大有帮助。向人们表达你的感激,哪怕是为了最小的善举,这样表明你看到了人性中善良的地方,你注意到了周围人所说所做的事情。

7. Smile often

经常微笑

Smiles are contagious. If a stranger walks past you at the store and smiles, it is a natural response to smile back. Seeing someone smile can remind others that there are things to be grateful for, that life is fun and exciting.

笑是可以传染的。如果在商场路过你身边的一位陌生人向你微笑,自然的反应就是回以微笑。看到别人微笑可以提醒他人,生活中有值得感恩的事情,生活是充满乐趣,激动人心的。

8. Don’t be constantly using your phone

不要经常使用手机

When you are with someone, be with them. Phones are an amazing piece of technology. But they are also a distraction. Use your phone when it’s appropriate. You don’t need it out every second of every day.

当你和某人在一起的时候,专心陪伴他们。手机是一项了不起的技术。但是也容易使人分心。在恰当的时候使用手机。你不需要分分秒秒都抱着手机。

9. Be faithful to your partner

对伴侣忠诚

We hear story after story about divorces and infidelity. It’s everywhere. By being honest and true with your partner, you are showing that you know where your priorities are. You understand what it means to be in a healthy relationship.

我们经常听说离婚和出轨的故事。这种事情屡见不鲜。诚恳真实地对待伴侣,你会向大家表明,你知道对你来说最重要的是什么。你能理解健康的恋爱关系意味着什么。

10. Support your children

支持孩子

Take time to be involved in your kids’ lives. Know what they’re interested in. Go their games, recitals, competitions, parent-teacher conferences, etc. Listen when they talk to you. Be the kind of parent they know they can go to when they have questions.

花点时间参与孩子的生活。了解他们的兴趣所在。参加他们的游戏,朗诵,竞赛,家长会等等。当他们跟你说话的时候认真倾听。做一个当他们有问题的时候可以向你求助的家长。

11. Personal hygiene isn’t an option, it’s a requirement

个人卫生不是选择,而是要求

Have breath mints handy. Wear deodorant. Brush your teeth. Wear clean clothes. These are things that should be common sense, but some people really struggle with them. Talking to someone with bad breath is gross. It’s distracting. All you can think about is that you want to give them a mint. Take care of your personal hygiene and people will be more focused on what you’re saying and doing instead of how you smell.

随身携带口香糖。喷洒除臭剂。刷牙。穿干净的衣服。这些都是常识,但是有些人却做不到。跟有口臭的人说话是非常令人厌恶的,容易使人分心。徘徊在你脑海中的都是想给他一片口香糖。注意个人卫生,人们更容易关注你的所说所做,而不是你的口气。

12. Speak clearly and make eye contact

口齿清晰,眼神交流

Let the person you’re talking to know that you are engaged in the conversation and that you care about what you’re discussing. Don’t mumble or look around, keep your focus on them.

13. Don’t chew gum

不要嚼口香糖

This can depend on the type of situation you’re in. If you’re with family hanging out or with close friends at the movies, gum is fine. But in a professional situation, gum is distracting.

这取决于你所处的场合。如果你和家人在外面闲逛或和好友一起看电影,嚼口香糖无伤大雅。而在职业化的场合,口香糖容易分散人们的注意力。

14. Use humor

幽默

This can lighten the mood and bring people down from a tense state. Just make sure you’re using this at appropriate times.

幽默感可以改善情绪,让人们从紧张的状态中放松下来。不过要确保时机恰当。

15. Greet people with a handshake or hug

和别人打招呼时握手或拥抱

Determine what type of situation you’re in. You probably don’t want to go in to an interview and hug your potential boss, but you should offer them a firm handshake. With close friends and family members a hug shows a level of intimacy. It shows that you love and care about them and gives you a way to physically express that.

16. Be true to yourself

做真实的自己

Know what you want out of life and do everything you can to achieve it.

17. Listen to others

倾听别人讲话

When someone is talking to you, listen to what they are saying. Don’t be thinking of a response while they are still talking.

18. Perform acts of kindness

行善

Open the door for someone, collect your neighbor’s mail when they go out town, make dinner for someone who just had a baby.

为别人开门,邻居外出的时候为他们取报纸,为刚刚分娩的产妇煮饭。

19. Be organized

井然有序

Have a schedule and know what you have going on. Know where things are in your house, at work, in your car, etc.

20. Compliment people

赞美别人

Look for the good in people around you and take the time to let them know you noticed. Compliment them on their clothes, their work, their attitude, anything you can think of.

21. Share knowledge and information with others

与他人分享知识和信息

When you have a skill or talent, share it. Teach others and share what you know and have learned.

如果你有一项技能或天赋,和他人分享。把你知道的或学会的教给他人,与他人分享。

22. Be positive and focus on the good

积极乐观,关注美好的一面

This can be hard when times are tough, but it’s possible. Look for the solution instead of focusing on the problem. Stay positive.

23. Help others

帮助他人

Help when and where you can. In most cases, chances to serve aren’t always at the most opportune times, but sacrificing your time to help someone in need says a lot about you.

条件允许的时候帮助他人。大部分情况下,时机都不是非常适宜,但是牺牲一点自己的时间来帮助他人,这说明你是个友善的人。

24. Keep a clean car

保持汽车清洁

Take your car through the car wash every so often. Clean out the inside. Don’t let garbage pile up. You never know when you’re going to have to give someone a ride.

25. Care about people

关心他人

Don’t build up a wall to “protect” your feelings. Let yourself feel, let yourself care for people.

26. Don’t take offense

不要生气

Things will be said and people will do things, purposefully or accidentally, that could hurt you. You can choose to be offended or to move past it.

27. Own up to your mistakes

坦白承认错误

When you make a mistake, admit it, own up to it, do what you can to fix it and move on.

当你犯错的时候,坦白承认,做一些事情来弥补,然后继续前行。

28. Take advantage of experiences life has to offer

利用生活带来的经验

If you get the opportunity to go somewhere new, learn a new talent or try something new, do it! Enjoy life.

29. Know what’s going on in the world

了解时事

Be up to date on recent news, both local and global. Be informed.

30. Travel

旅行

The world is a big place. Take the time to go out and meet new people, learn new cultures and make new memories.返回搜狐,查看更多

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